Some call it marriage. We call it Bondingoo: the conscious decision to truly see each other. One yes is the beginning. Yes again and again is Bonding.
Choose your first pearl → How it works ↓A relationship is never a given.
Bondingoo is a space for couples who are doing well together and want to nurture that consciously, year after year. More in the journal: Why we should choose each other anew every year.
Bonding is what it is about. Bondingoo is the name that grew out of it.
Only two things are binding: the first pearl and the year. Everything else is up to you.
One of you designs it for the other: size, material, finish and a word out of 25 that carries your first year. A card delivers the word and the access for both of you.
Four nudges through the year: two conversations with your personal celebrant (60 minutes each) and two task blocks in between. You set goals and wishes, discover your love languages and follow a story that runs through your word. All in your Bondingoo login.
At the end of the year you take stock: what have you achieved, which wishes have come true? Then you choose the word for the next year together. The pearl comes home in your jewellery box, and its certificate lands in your Bondingoo History.
At the end of the year you can celebrate your yes. You decide how much of it you want. Bondingoo can culminate in it, but does not have to.
For couples who want to celebrate their yes first: a wedding conversation of 2.5 hours with your celebrant plus an individual 30-minute conversation each. From it comes a speech from your story, delivered in a ceremony at your place. One of you hands over the first pearl, and the word of your first year is revealed in the speech. Then your Bonding year begins, with its two conversations and two task blocks.
Location, photography and programme via your wedding planner.
You do not have to work on your relationship every day. Four times a year we remind you to look at each other.
Discover love languages, formulate wishes, draft goals. Each on your own.
60 minutes with your celebrant. You compare your answers and set your goals together.
Compass check at mid-year. Where do you stand? Plus tasks for everyday life.
60 minutes of review. What has grown and which word carries the next year?
Every conversation begins with a minute of eye contact. I see you. You see me. No coaching and no therapy, but a frame that invites you to look.
Every year one pearl, each with a certified laboratory-grown diamond, threaded onto a band that one of you wears. After a few years it is no longer a necklace, but your story.
Your celebrant leads the conversations in your Bonding year. Your wedding planner shapes your celebrations, from the start to the anniversary.
Bondingoo turns that decision into a ritual.
Choose your first pearl →