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Mandy &
Thomas.

A wedding in Mexico. Four renewals around half the world. Four pearls that tell the story.

"We thought the wedding was the point. Bondingoo showed us it was the beginning."

Mandy and Thomas got married in Mexico, with a wedding conversation in the Bondingoo system and a wedding speech that, in their own words, "had nothing to do with the ceremonies we knew otherwise." Four years have passed since then, four renewals in four places around the world, four pearls added, and, as they say, a relationship that feels more deliberate than ever before.

Their journey

One beginning, four renewals.

How Mandy and Thomas experienced their wedding and the first four Bondingoo years, with the renewal held in a different place each year, organised through their own wedding planner.

THE BEGINNING · MEXICO

Yes.

"Our wedding speech and ceremony took place in Mexico, in a place that meant something to both of us." What grew out of the wedding conversation in the Bondingoo system was a ceremony that was entirely their own. After that, Bondingoo took over the accompaniment throughout the year.

YEAR ONE · RENEWAL IN BRAZIL

Trust

"The four task blocks in the first year came exactly when we needed them." By the end of the year, both agreed: trust was the word that carried this first year. They celebrated their renewal in Brazil, organised through their own wedding planner.

YEAR TWO · RENEWAL IN HAWAII

Patience

"In the second year, a lot changed, a new job, a move. The tasks helped us not to lose each other." They chose their meaning for the second year themselves in the Bondingoo login: patience. They chose the matching pearl together, and celebrated their renewal in Hawaii.

YEAR THREE · RENEWAL IN THE PHILIPPINES

Adventure

"We wanted to dare something this year, together." The four task blocks revolved exactly around that: trying new things together. Their renewal in the Philippines was their farthest trip yet, again organised through their own wedding planner.

YEAR FOUR · RENEWAL IN COSTA RICA

Gratitude

"Four years, four pearls, four places we'd otherwise never have reached." In Costa Rica they renewed their promise for the fourth time, looking back on four years they'd shaped deliberately, not simply let happen.

"We're not collecting pearls. We're collecting proof that we said yes again every year, in a new place in the world."

Mandy & Thomas, with Bondingoo for 4 years

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